She also never feels like she pleases me and this can send her into these funks???? For the longest time I couldn't figure out what I was doing to send her into this state. I want to find ways to support her and love her because of what has happened to her. It worked for me I dont know if this will be hepful.
The pain that is surfacing in her life is literally killing her and I'm watching it. I hurt so bad also and I have to be strong because there is nothing coming back into me. That doesn't matter and I have to find the strength to keep giving!!! Also like your girlfriend, I never told anyone besides my lover.
Supporting a rape victim can be challenging but it is worth it to know that you are helping someone who has gone through something so unthinkable.
Both men and women can be victims of rape and both men and women can be supports for the victim. (The gender "she" is used in this article for the victim, however, this is not always the case.) There are many things you can do to support a rape victim. It's important not to judge the rape victim and to listen to her and let her know that you are there for support.
I am currently dating a woman that I am absolutely in love with. She was raped as a teenager at a college fraternity house by multiple men. It would be a good idea for her to find a therapist and try to get some help. It is making me say and do things I normally wouldn't do. I usually don't get too close to people because Im afraid they'll hurt me again.
She remembers some parts of it and it was traumatic to say the least. I think you could tell her that you will be there for her no matter what, if she needs to vent or if she just needs someone to talk to. It has to be someone who she feels comfortable with and who she can really talk to. The pain goes into me also and she doesn't understand that I was raped also. I have an amazing boyfriend for two years now, and he supports me everyday.
They suffer immensely, but they are just as much themselves after the rape as before.
Another rape victim I dated was a butch woman who had just adopted a kitten that completely befuddled her.
It doesn’t really matter at this point.”I guess, maybe in some way, I didn’t expect her to be so it. It happened when I was 14 and younger by my brother and a "close friend".It's incredibly painful to watch a person you love go through a trauma like rape and you might not know how to support a rape victim.According to the Rape, Incest and Abuse National Network, these are other things you can do to support a rape victim: And remember that while supporting a rape victim, it's also important to care for yourself too.If you're not well, you can't hope to help anyone else.